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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:06 PM
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Had a bad day? part II-warning (not funny)

I lost my twin girls last week. My girlfriend went into labor early. One was already dead and the hospital tried to save the second to no avail. Worst moment of my life. Some of you know that I hit a cat and it messed up my car 2 weeks ago. My insurance informed me my deductibe was $1000?! What???? F you nationwide. Anyway with that and $250 for a rental, I couldn't afford a burial. I had to get them creamated. AND to top it off I've been driving around in this pastel horror. I've literally seen people laugh at me.


Don't take **** for granted..I'll slap you in the face.

AND..sry for the morbid post. I think I just needed to vent.

RIP- Eva Marie, Alexia Taylor
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:12 PM
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my mother lost a child when i was 5 i havent been back to a cemetery sense...it has inpacked my that much.. i understand your pain as a family member my mother still is sensitive about it to this day...


ill pray for you.. and your grieving process.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:31 PM
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Thank you nramlow2006. Iv'e tried to be strong all week. To concentrate on my girlfriend's well being. I know inside she's even questioned if I even cared. Well.. You let my floodgates open. Thankyou again I kinda needed that. Funny that this could finally happen on a message board. Guess im just technology savy or something. Or maybe a PC geek to the 3rd power.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:38 PM
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I am very sorry to hear what your going through man. Stay strong! Ill be praying for you as well.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:40 PM
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damn... tragic and unfortunate...

that's why I always try to live each day to its best... you never know what's gonna happen tomorrow...
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:42 PM
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My Condolences for your loss. The memory of the shared joy your children brought you and your girlfriend are far more important than anything else. Just keep that in mind.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:44 PM
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That's awful!!!!! I couldn't even imagine being able to function right now if I were you. The car is just a minor detail, granted it doesn't help the situation, but I couldn't even imagine losing two children at once!!!!!!!
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:48 PM
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+rep for Op. You could use something positive these days!
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by SSBalt
Thank you nramlow2006. Iv'e tried to be strong all week. To concentrate on my girlfriend's well being. I know inside she's even questioned if I even cared. Well.. You let my floodgates open. Thankyou again I kinda needed that. Funny that this could finally happen on a message board. Guess im just technology savy or something. Or maybe a PC geek to the 3rd power.
no man its tough... its something that has scared me in a way... i dont like funerals even if i dont know the person... they are way hard on me.. i told everybody i know that if i die tomarrow i wont go to my own funeral.. i guess this is a chance for your and your girlfriend to grow together grow closer..
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:50 PM
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Damn dude. That is really unfortunate. I'm am sorry for your loss. I hope everything gets better for ya!
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:51 PM
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SSBalt, I am sorry to hear of your loss. My wife and I will say some prayers for you.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 02:58 PM
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Wow man, i'm sorry about the twins. I just found out Tuesday im having a little girl.

God bless you and your girlfriend, hopefully if you decide to try again everything goes smooth.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by alleycat58
That's awful!!!!! I couldn't even imagine being able to function right now if I were you. The car is just a minor detail, granted it doesn't help the situation, but I couldn't even imagine losing two children at once!!!!!!!

Yeah I don't really give a poo about the car situation. Just thought I'd spice up the thread for those who bothered to click on it. To be honest. If I was on the outside looking in...I would feel bad but wouldn't totally understand. But living it.. its crushing. And I feel quilty for even throwing this at you guys. I should be talking about my 2.4 SS doing a 12.6 in the quarter. Cause it can. STOCK. jk

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Wow man, i'm sorry about the twins. I just found out Tuesday im having a little girl.

God bless you and your girlfriend, hopefully if you decide to try again everything goes smooth.

Thanku and goodluck to you. I hear girls are a handful

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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 03:26 PM
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Im so sorry to hear that man.. if yu need anything im sure the members of will be glad to help.. keep your chin up bro...!! I know its tough...!!


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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 03:35 PM
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Do you by any chance know the reason they couldn't make it?
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 03:57 PM
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my prayers and thoughts are with you!
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:05 PM
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uhhh wow

how has this "nick" not been banned yet, w/ over 200 post....



nick11, ur going to have a rough life, if you havent already
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:08 PM
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ban for nick.....waiting......

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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:13 PM
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I know why it happened GOD is punishing you for driving a piece of crap cobalt!! Your wife probably drank some drano and rather have a miscarage than bring girls into a world where their father drives a cobalt LOL.

moral of the story... get a new car.... and learn how to knock up a woman without it leading to miscarrage....
WTF?!?!?! How the hell could you say something like that? That's is so not cool. This poor guys just lost two family members and you're making a mockery out of it. Horrible taste

And i'm really sorry to hear about your daughters. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted by johnkb8
uhhh wow

how has this "nick" not been banned yet, w/ over 200 post....



nick11, ur going to have a rough life, if you havent already
I was thinking the exact same thing.

Sorry about your loss man, I can say I can sort of relate. You mentioned your girl does may think that you don't even care, make sure she does, I know your hurting but I believe it's even harder on the woman that was actually carrying the childs, you have to remember they were part of her so she's gonna need you the most right now. Make sure you are there for her and let her know how you feel, right now it is not the time to act the strong macho man. I believe your trying to deflect your true feelings as I do when I'm unconfortable, but just let it out it'll make you feel better and help you heal. God luck man. Take care of your self and your girl.

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LOL who cares I WANT to be banned, this forum full of losers like the original poster.

WAAAAAAAAA my twins are dead WAAAAAAA

well tell your wife to lay off whoring her self out while shes 8 month pregnant for bus fair, and than maybe you wont have this problem again.

ALso keep that crap off the forums who cares about your sad personal life.... which isnt near as sad as the fact that you drive a piece of crap cobalt hahahah
How about you tell me where you live and I'll go over there an ban your from existance instead. That is all.

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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:29 PM
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guys just ignore Nick, hes looking for some attention, dont let him take away from this man unfortunate week,

Sorry to hear about your loss
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:35 PM
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:41 PM
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nick, what a shmuck.

Anyways, sorry to hear about your loss! My thoughts are with you. Hope everything starts looking up for you both.
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:44 PM
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Oh yea I have a really "rought" life HAHAH loser learn to spell..... damn i guess if i couldnt spell itd be dumb enough to drive a cobalt too...
Don't care about spelling, which you obviously can't do, but learn some grammar before you try to make that pathetic attempt at being a troll next time:

-and than maybe...and THEN maybe
-this forum full of losers.....this forum IS full of losers
-rather have a miscarage...MISCARRIAGE

That's not including most of your blatant illiteracy and try your big guy act on me clown, we all know you're not getting enough attention anywhere else. If you want to be banned, quit whining and trying to get attention and leave the forum. To the original poster, my sympathies, I can't even imagine what you're going through...
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Old Sep 13, 2007 | 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted by nick11
Buddy you would be out in one punch you loser!!!


And dont be mad at me cause I am the only one who had the guts to say it how it is.... who cares if his twins died?!?!?! This is a car forum...... and honestly its for the best I know for a fact his wife is a lieing **** who was on drugs and alcohol during the pregnancy.
car-fourm or not. we are like on big family. no matter what the deal or whats going on. if you need to talk thats what we are all here for. yea we all love cars but we are all family ppl to. how would you feel if we bashed on your pos family. no matter what the situation or how someones life is going, if they need to talk thats what we are all here for. damn i bet your mother wishes your bitch ass was a blow job. **** off.

hey man sorry bout you kids. they are with god now. hold your head up, it would be alright. your family is in my prayers.
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