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Never had it, never will. 0 0%
Haven't yet, saving it for marriage. 5 8.20%
Have only had it in serious relationships. 17 27.87%
Had it once, addicted for life. Have it all the time. 39 63.93%
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Old 10-08-2013, 04:08 PM   #1
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Sex before marriage

So I was reading through another thread and this got me thinking 2 things: what are other people's opinions on this topic, and why doesn't css.net have interesting threads like this anymore?

So the topic of discussion is sex before marriage. This is in no way to insult anyone with views one way or another, so let's keep it that way. What's your view and why? Are you saving it for marriage? Did you try to save it for marriage but for some reason or another you had it? Did you not even try to save it for marriage?


I'll start. I was raised to believe we should save it for marriage. That was sort of the plan, but due to influences, how I was raised, the circumstances, etc. I knew that wasn't going to be the case. I had it with my first serious girlfriend (6 months into a relationship that lasted 5 years ) and I was hooked ever since. I haven't had a ton of partners, I would call it a few, but those few I've had it a ton with. That being said, I'm glad I did because knowing how each of them were in bed, I can tell you which ones I wouldn't be able to be with for the rest of my life just because of that . I have discovered that I need someone spontanious, good, and the same level of sex drive in bed. PS, mine is high. Now, I definitely can't get married to a person not knowing what they are like in bed.
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Always sex before marriage, it would suck to wait until marriage only to have the person you are ******* be bad at it and then be stuck with someone who sucks at sex the rest of your life.
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Always sex before marriage, it would suck to wait until marriage only to have the person you are ******* be bad at it and then be stuck with someone who sucks at sex the rest of your life.
Yep, I've come to that determination too. I already hear enough people complaining about how sexless their relationship is, and I'm only 24! What is it going to be like when they are 30 and have kids? I don't want to end up like them.

Then again, I've had girls let me have it as often as I wanted it with them, but they were so bad at it (or put no effort into it), I was better off just "taking care of it myself".
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I understand why people wait, it really is a good choice. I always tried the new car out before I bought it. To each there own.
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Old 10-08-2013, 04:36 PM   #7
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Before marriage. Finding a girl who will wait and hasn't been banged by their share of dudes is so rare these days, as well finding a good girl who won't be a prude who will 'wait' is also impossible. So...ehh. It is what it is.
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I can agree with ya Scythe. They are a rare breed. The only girls that haven't been banged are generally undesirable or feminazis

Well, looking back, i have only had >10 partners, only a few were serious. If i could do it over again i might as well have saved it till marriage. I figure doing so increases the value of eachother as your one and only from marriage forward.

Though, it would suck to have a partner who was awful in bed, but how would you know, you would have noone to compare them to!

But now that i've had it, i just wanna bone everything i see hahaha
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I can agree with ya Scythe. They are a rare breed. The only girls that haven't been banged are generally undesirable or feminazis

Well, looking back, i have only had >10 partners, only a few were serious. If i could do it over again i might as well have saved it till marriage. I figure doing so increases the value of eachother as your one and only from marriage forward.

Though, it would suck to have a partner who was awful in bed, but how would you know, you would have noone to compare them to!

But now that i've had it, i just wanna bone everything i see hahaha
Nature is nature man. When we get it, its like breaking the seal and we want more of it. As guys we like to 'conquer'

But yeah, eww....feminazis. ******* hate the **** out of them. No matter what stance you take, you're a misogynist and evil.

Then you have the uggos! BLURG!
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i was a huge ***** in high school. I pretty much had a different girl every month or so.

I've been married for a few years now though. I got that out of my system.
My wife was kind of like "wtf" when we first started dating and I told her the number 18 *cough*
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had my kids at age 21, from 18-21, prior to the having kids I DIDNT GIVE A ****! Having low standards is BOSS. Been with 20+ women, not too many keepers out of the bunch if you know what I mean but it was a fun time.
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Sex is too easily thrown around nowadays. The majority of guys I know throw it around like it's nothing, when most girls just put out because they want the love. Yeah, we got the ***** that just want it so whatever floats their boat. I'm not a Bible banger or even super religious, but there's nothing that sounds more exciting than bringing my wife home for the first time and all that jazz. Call me corny or whatever but it's a lot harder to find someone who's real anymore regarding relationships and honesty. The real marriages that actually last the rest of their lives are so uncommon now. Everyone moves in together, gets knocked up together, then after they get sick of each other after a year or two they get in a divorce cause they don't know how to be mature and work it out like freaking adults. (No offense to anyone on here) ***** up kids in the long run.

Marriage has lost the majority of it's importance. Quick love, expensive weddings, quick divorces.
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lost when I was 15/16 been addicted since....it's a shame some people don't experience it, found a freak of a girlfriend though to help with that
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Started dating who now my fiance when she was 16 and I was 18. I had been with 1 other person before and I was the first for both. I don't regret not having sex with more people, I love my fiance and she does the job for me. We waited about a year and 3 months (both of our choices) and it has worked out fine
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18 when i lost.. was plannin on waiting till gettin married, and well kissing just couldnt stay kissing lmao. now that that cat was let loose, ummmm..... "bad mini me, NO HUMPING!"
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Sex is too easily thrown around nowadays. The majority of guys I know throw it around like it's nothing, when most girls just put out because they want the love. Yeah, we got the ***** that just want it so whatever floats their boat. I'm not a Bible banger or even super religious, but there's nothing that sounds more exciting than bringing my wife home for the first time and all that jazz. Call me corny or whatever but it's a lot harder to find someone who's real anymore regarding relationships and honesty. The real marriages that actually last the rest of their lives are so uncommon now. Everyone moves in together, gets knocked up together, then after they get sick of each other after a year or two they get in a divorce cause they don't know how to be mature and work it out like freaking adults. (No offense to anyone on here) ***** up kids in the long run.

Marriage has lost the majority of it's importance. Quick love, expensive weddings, quick divorces.
You said what I think better than I could have.
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I don't have anything against premarital sex at all...... im not one for going around and banging everything that moves though.

ive been with my fiancé now for awhile. I was her first and I waited to get it as I respected her greatly.. shes a few years younger but she waited until she found the right person.

me on the other hand I lost mine to the girl in my first serious relationship. spent nearly 4 years with her before it went up in flames and im happy it did because im with the woman im with now and I love her to death.

to me I find more respect out of people who respect themselves and wait for the right person to come along. to me unless you truly know the person I wouldn't have sex with them...... might wake up with something you don't want one day.
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I had sex with the guy I thought I was going to marry. Were together for 6 years. We were both each other's firsts but since then we have each had one other partner. I'm not the type of person to have sex if I'm not in a relationship and also not the type to screw everyone I date. I have to be in love with the person or really care about them. The second guy was just one time and it was a mistake. But if people want to wait till marriage then that's good to know they aren't ****** lol
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