so i installed my hids today, from 3b with the relay harness, on stock 9007. here is my problem, if i get the hids to work, my driver side high beam doesnt work, if i get the high beams to work, my hids dont.

the blue connector on passenger side is connected to the blue comeing out of the hids, the relay harness on passender side goes to ballest, i have one more 22 prong female plug comeing from the hid that has no matching plug so im not using it, no idea what its for.

on the driver side, i connected the blue coming out of the hid to the blue on the relay harness otherwise the hids dont power up. the blue stock wireing harness is empty at the moment, no idea what do do with it, the 2 prong coming from the his also no idea what its for, and the 2 prong on relay harness goes to ballest, the other small plugs connest from hid to ballest, so what am i doing wrong here? im getting pissed off.

oh i have 2 wires black and blue coming from the blue connecter on the relay harness, no idea what they are for, can someone please help? this **** is not plug and play