Calgary - random talk thread
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Pretty much i ended up meeting a good looking nice body girl at a hotel room when i was just right juiced.
One thing led to another and i guess the effects of the alcohol really affected my sexual performance.
One thing led to another and i guess the effects of the alcohol really affected my sexual performance.
I hate that site.
I dabbled with it, even got suckered into giving them money too...
I found this great site about it too;
http:////www.singlesteve.com/2011/01...mony-****-you/
To continue my reply to you Kass;
I think that in our self-alienated, self-absoarbed society that the interwebz, (or dumb luck at a venu like say your church (if that's your thing)) is about the only way to meet people;
I wasn't at all interested in meeting someone at a bar, nor was I interested in meeting under the premise of something I own, or some other superficial/materialisitic reason...
I wanted to meet someone for who they are first, and see if there was a physical attraction second.
A favorite song line of mine is a Rammstein line;
"Die schönen Mädchen sind nicht schön"
Loosely translated it says:
"The beautiful women are not beautiful"
I like that line because it seems to me, in general (because there are ALWAYS exceptions), the most outwardly beautfiul in our society, are the ugliest people you could ever meet...
"Ugly" comes in many forms...
I think that in our self-alienated, self-absoarbed society that the interwebz, (or dumb luck at a venu like say your church (if that's your thing)) is about the only way to meet people;
I wasn't at all interested in meeting someone at a bar, nor was I interested in meeting under the premise of something I own, or some other superficial/materialisitic reason...
I wanted to meet someone for who they are first, and see if there was a physical attraction second.
A favorite song line of mine is a Rammstein line;
"Die schönen Mädchen sind nicht schön"
Loosely translated it says:
"The beautiful women are not beautiful"
I like that line because it seems to me, in general (because there are ALWAYS exceptions), the most outwardly beautfiul in our society, are the ugliest people you could ever meet...
"Ugly" comes in many forms...
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To continue my reply to you Kass;
I think that in our self-alienated, self-absoarbed society that the interwebz, (or dumb luck at a venu like say your church (if that's your thing)) is about the only way to meet people;
I wasn't at all interested in meeting someone at a bar, nor was I interested in meeting under the premise of something I own, or some other superficial/materialisitic reason...
I wanted to meet someone for who they are first, and see if there was a physical attraction second.
A favorite song line of mine is a Rammstein line;
"Die schönen Mädchen sind nicht schön"
Loosely translated it says:
"The beautiful women are not beautiful"
I like that line because it seems to me, in general (because there are ALWAYS exceptions), the most outwardly beautfiul in our society, are the ugliest people you could ever meet...
"Ugly" comes in many forms...
I think that in our self-alienated, self-absoarbed society that the interwebz, (or dumb luck at a venu like say your church (if that's your thing)) is about the only way to meet people;
I wasn't at all interested in meeting someone at a bar, nor was I interested in meeting under the premise of something I own, or some other superficial/materialisitic reason...
I wanted to meet someone for who they are first, and see if there was a physical attraction second.
A favorite song line of mine is a Rammstein line;
"Die schönen Mädchen sind nicht schön"
Loosely translated it says:
"The beautiful women are not beautiful"
I like that line because it seems to me, in general (because there are ALWAYS exceptions), the most outwardly beautfiul in our society, are the ugliest people you could ever meet...
"Ugly" comes in many forms...
I also have a song line from Rammsein that i like to use
Bück dich
das Gesicht interessiert mich nicht
Loosley translated as
Bend over
Your face doesn't interest me.
Pretty straight foward.
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hahahahah omg.... ok now
well i am glad i decided to go past the 10ft radius you all have decided was a safe distance with pof ladies.... when i met ella.... like jonathan, i met a wonderful lady on a so called hook up site.... not everyone is a easy hook up from there....
well i am glad i decided to go past the 10ft radius you all have decided was a safe distance with pof ladies.... when i met ella.... like jonathan, i met a wonderful lady on a so called hook up site.... not everyone is a easy hook up from there....
hahahahah omg.... ok now
well i am glad i decided to go past the 10ft radius you all have decided was a safe distance with pof ladies.... when i met ella.... like jonathan, i met a wonderful lady on a so called hook up site.... not everyone is a easy hook up from there....
well i am glad i decided to go past the 10ft radius you all have decided was a safe distance with pof ladies.... when i met ella.... like jonathan, i met a wonderful lady on a so called hook up site.... not everyone is a easy hook up from there....
I was only interested in meeting women fitting certain criteria;
If they came up passing certain "facts", I looked at their picture(s), if I thought she was cute, or had potential, I would message her;
If after the meeting* if there was nothing there, I would move on.
(* = normally one, but if I wasn't sure, and the first meet wasn't a trainwreck sometimes two meets)
This was just my method, I will not suggest that I know it all...
At the end of the day, EVERYONE is likeable, and everyone wants to be loved by someone...
Stalin arguably the worlds greatest (andlargely uncreditied) murderer, had not one, but three wives - so there were at least three women who loved him... if murderers can find love, I would think that most any one can...
But it is increasingly tough when everyone seems to go into a relationship with hte mindset of "what can I get out of this"...
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If there's no attraction, it's not worth persuing for sure.
I was only interested in meeting women fitting certain criteria;
If they came up passing certain "facts", I looked at their picture(s), if I thought she was cute, or had potential, I would message her;
If after the meeting* if there was nothing there, I would move on.
(* = normally one, but if I wasn't sure, and the first meet wasn't a trainwreck sometimes two meets)
This was just my method, I will not suggest that I know it all...
At the end of the day, EVERYONE is likeable, and everyone wants to be loved by someone...
Stalin arguably the worlds greatest (andlargely uncreditied) murderer, had not one, but three wives - so there were at least three women who loved him... if murderers can find love, I would think that most any one can...
But it is increasingly tough when everyone seems to go into a relationship with hte mindset of "what can I get out of this"...
I was only interested in meeting women fitting certain criteria;
If they came up passing certain "facts", I looked at their picture(s), if I thought she was cute, or had potential, I would message her;
If after the meeting* if there was nothing there, I would move on.
(* = normally one, but if I wasn't sure, and the first meet wasn't a trainwreck sometimes two meets)
This was just my method, I will not suggest that I know it all...
At the end of the day, EVERYONE is likeable, and everyone wants to be loved by someone...
Stalin arguably the worlds greatest (andlargely uncreditied) murderer, had not one, but three wives - so there were at least three women who loved him... if murderers can find love, I would think that most any one can...
But it is increasingly tough when everyone seems to go into a relationship with hte mindset of "what can I get out of this"...
You're asking me to make a judgement call for you... I can't do that.
I could only make such a call if I was a close friend/relative to whom you confided in, and looked to opinions from.
Otherwise my words might as well be directed ata brick wall.
I could only make such a call if I was a close friend/relative to whom you confided in, and looked to opinions from.
Otherwise my words might as well be directed ata brick wall.
Alot of planning, and a little bit of luck on my part...
I have found that since I don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, that I have turned to google for tips/advice in several instances in our relationship - and every time it has seemed to be that I the right decision.
The 'Readers Digest condensed' version of the story goes like this;
It wasn't over the top elaborate;
But as it turns out she absolutely loved the way it went down.
She told me that after my recent ebay record purchase (I accidentally deleted it from my timeline), that she figured I was going to put off buying the ring.... but I'm not that kind of guy - I'm about priorities, and my toys take second seat to people in my life.
I'm excited, but I knew we were going here, and I had actually bought the ring almost a whole month ago (Dec 17 iirc)...
I wanted to propose before New Year's, but opportunity didn't arrise, so planning/scheming how to pop the question commensed January 1st.
I have found that since I don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, that I have turned to google for tips/advice in several instances in our relationship - and every time it has seemed to be that I the right decision.
The 'Readers Digest condensed' version of the story goes like this;
- On saturday I took her to "our" Starbucks (the one we first met at on May 26, 2012);
- The luck side of things was that we were able to actually sit at "our" table too(!);
- While we were waiting for our coffee's I recalled what was going throught my mind while awaiting her arrival -and my impression when she walked in...
- Then after getting our bevy's, I broke out a "list" (I had told her about a week prior that I was writing something for her) - it was a "Top ten reasons why I should marry Jamie" list...
- Several times while reading it, she had to stop herself from crying... (I put a fair amount of thought into the list, so each point was a full thought rather than something small)
- Then after reading the list (and to me the kicker was that she totally didn't see it coming!!), I whipped out the ring and poped the question...
It wasn't over the top elaborate;
But as it turns out she absolutely loved the way it went down.
She told me that after my recent ebay record purchase (I accidentally deleted it from my timeline), that she figured I was going to put off buying the ring.... but I'm not that kind of guy - I'm about priorities, and my toys take second seat to people in my life.
I'm excited, but I knew we were going here, and I had actually bought the ring almost a whole month ago (Dec 17 iirc)...
I wanted to propose before New Year's, but opportunity didn't arrise, so planning/scheming how to pop the question commensed January 1st.
wow... at first i was all like... ugh.. do i want to read all 4 pages that have happened since yesterday. but im glad i did
Congrats!
almost like old times......
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also for the first time that i can recall, almost everyone is doing more mods..... sylver, diabetic, dude, victory, phsyco, capt shortbus, and myself have done alot lately..... same with a couple of GMToC members...
soundjunky and bish are making news in thier own ways.....
its pretty cool lately....
soundjunky and bish are making news in thier own ways.....
its pretty cool lately....