nothing is ever written in stone.. ill always remember the quote area on here told me.. a ring cannot cover a hole... think about it.. sooo true..

as you can see i was fucked over my self.. didnt get as far as marriage but was engaged for a year.. about to get married.. its all bullshit.. these days girls are just attension ****** and need to cross their ******* legs

 

Yea we will prob be going to Australia in about 4 months when we are on our way back...I agree with all of you and will probobly nail him and her with everything I can. I have not made a decision yet. I am still "pissed off" and do not want to say something she could use against me. But both chain of commands have been notified and are awwaiting a decision from me.

 

So this is the latest from my cheating wife....

I looked up some of the proceedings on the State of Washington website for dissolutions of marriages where the wife is pregnant. One, they cannot deny a divorce to a woman just becuase she is pregnant. Two, there is a form called Acknowledgment of Paternity, where all three of us could sign saying who the father is. That way you would not be held legally responsible at all. The address for this website is: http://www.nwwlc.org/tools/dissolution.htm I don't just believe he is the father. I know he is. The due date is calculated by the first day of my last menstrual period, which was 08Mar08. Conception would have occured about two weeks after that, which puts it around 22Mar08. Doctors put a pregnancy at 40 weeks when in actuality a pregnancy only lasts about 38. The first two weeks is just your body preparing for being pregnant where then you usually have a period...unless an egg is fertilized. Anyway, that's how that works...let me know what you want to do on that one.
I'm not sure how I feel right now...yes, I am a little excited, but I even told you that I didn't want to have a kid for a very long time...I didn't plan for this to happen, nor did I want it to. If it helps I was on birth control. I don't know why things are happening this way, but I guess it all happens for a reason...I really am very truly sorry that it all turned out this way...I never wanted to hurt you this badly...ever. I can't even begin to imagine the kind of pain you are going through and knowing that I caused it makes me feel sick to my stomach.
I guess now we just have to figure things out...just let me know what you want to do...

 

dude i hate to say it but the other guy is prolly tryna bail cuz of all the **** that is goin on an he's scared...so she's tryna mend everything hoping ur gunna come back to her an have that kid...she's lookin for support cuz she dun have any right now...dun give in ...once a cheater always a cheater...its not worth it...push forward with the plans an give it to her! (the legal way)...make her sry she did it...cuz right now she only sayin she is cuz she needs some help...once everything calms down if you got back with her, the moment that guy came back she'd prolly be up on him again...jus rid urself of her an find a hotter better one....an like i said, it'll prolly make u feel better if you **** her best friend

 

SWEET! Is Brisbane a Port-O-Call? If so, I'll get **** hooked up. You will have people waiting for you when you pull into port! I have some friends from Washington that live there and I have been there a few times and have a small network of friends there too. Really good people! They will give you the red carpet tour of the town. And don't worry about the honeys, they are plentiful there. All you have to do is pick!

 

damn....reading all this makes me want to hurry up and get this deployment over...

good luck bro...hope it all works out in your favor...

 

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LMAO...that is great....

So me and her just talked on the phone...she is not trying to take the car anymore and I told her I am going to give someone in Washington a Power of Atterney to go get it from her. She said ok. I also said that the speed of the divorce is going to rely on her since I am out here somewhere by africa I think. So first step for us is a disestablishment of paternity saying I am not the father and the other dude is. Then I will send her the divorce paperwork saying that the cobalt is mine and the other bills are hers. Well that is where we are now. I know I should screw her over but in the past year with her being in Iraq and me going on deployment 5 days after she gets back I am not going to add to the distress. We are just going to go our seperate ways and that is it. I think it will be better in the end. She is trying to stay in washington now instead of going to Wisconsin. I am not too sure on what I want to do yet. But I will probobly be in Washington for a few more months after we get back.

Well I am out for now...internet it taking about 10 min to load one page so talk to you later.

 

Well, at least she doesnt want the car now...I hope you stay in washington, it was fun hanging with you! I still think you should at least make her life a tad bit harder....

 

good job being the better man bill

 

sorry to hear all this. i know everytime i deploy i worry. i may have little to worry about with my wife but its always there. i cants stand cheating women and even worse she sayed she wanted a divorce while you are deployed. that is some absolute bull ****. well hang in there and get home safe.

 

yea i kno that feeling being former military myself....hope ya both get back soon an safe....but i guess your bein the better man...i still think you should rape her for emotional distress a bit...make some money to put into the cobalt...an if she's with that guy still then its hurtin both of em..win/win

 

wow- crazy man. I just read all that. Ya think ya know someone huh!?! Keep your chin up dogg. Get your ass back safe. I will not be here sadly. I'm PCSing to TX. I report NLT 10 August so I have to sell my house ASAP and get ready to go. Keep in touch man.
Brandon

 

So she is really going off her rocker....she is now asking me for money and is still asking me for a POA and crap. I had a buddy out here say that some kids are dropped on thier heads....she must have been thrown. I do not really think she realizes how dead she is to me now...she keeps trying to be all buddy buddy and all. It is driving me crazy that she is not sending me the paperwork I need to finish this one last time. I am soo damn ready to move the hell on with my life and it is like she is now trying to hold on. I am about to hire a lawyer and have him or her take care of everything for me. I can not even stress enough to you guys how much I hate her now. Damn ***** that can not keep her legs closed so if anyone wants a shot just let me know and I will shoot you her damn phone number. **** I mean like really is she that damn stupid and self centered that she only keeps thinking of herself? Well that is my gripe right now. Talk to you all later.

 

Mine didn't cheat on me, that I know of. But she did decide she wanted to get divorced when I got back from Iraq my last tour. I don't know what is up with Washington, but married miltary people who deploy from there can't seem to stay married. I think my unit had something like a 75% divorce rate from our last tour. How the hell do you get a 75% divorce rate?!

 

Wow infinity....a 75% divorce rate....that is crazy....I just want to move the hell on. I have another female wanting to get with me it is just I am still married and she respects that....yea on the re-bound!!!!!!

 

Hell, when I was still in Iraq at the end of my tour, I thought me and the wify might be able to work things out. If I had known we couldn't, there was this girl I got along with great that I could have been banging my last three months there. But no, I turned her down cuz I'm a good guy. I could still hook up with her, but she is at Ft Mead in DC, which is way to long a drive. And I don't even want to know how I ended up dating a stripper. (can message you the cut/paste high points if you want something to read)