Time to get some money in this fine saturday

 

No sir

 

I had a feeling you were gona post lol

 

Well it's true, you can't say cheating only happens in long distance, cause it can happen in any relationship.

So many people on this forum are guilty of cheating, and not just in the physical way.

 

Rebuilding my retros today..maybe

 

Woah there missy. I didn't say it only happens in long distance. That would be stupid to say.

It happens no matter what. It's just easier to trust someone that lives right by you and see all the time. That's just my opinion.

 

Why rebuild?

 

No I think it depends. I trust someone until I'm given a reason not too even then I'm guilty of trying to rebuild it after the trust is lost.

I've trusted from across the country, and haven't trusted from across the room. So I truly think it all depends on the person.

 

Ya I agree. It does depend on the person. I think it would be easier to cheat and get away with it if you're in a long distance though. Just because the news would most likely not get to you as fast if you're states apart. It would probably get to you faster living in the same city.

 

The main reason I'm not for long distance is because the lack of seeing someone. That's my big thing in a relationship. I must see the person multiple times a week. That's just me.

 

Yeah and see I usually like being alone sometimes it sucks but I usually like it.

 

When it comes to everyone but him I like to be alone too lol

 

well just my two cents

1: all men and women cheat to some degree.

GENERALLY SPEAKING!!!- men have what we call fantasy girls. it might be singers, actress, **** stars, strippers, etc... now, if the "faithful" man have the chance and this is his ONLY chance, he has what i call a "window of opportunity". that window closes very quickly. if he doesn't act, he's going to wonder what if, wonder if, shoulda, coulda, etc...now in some cases, given an unlimited amount of resources, we are going to take it. the part of the "game" is how well do you cover your tracks, which is the only difference between men and women. we are not around our mate(s) 24/7. all it takes is 15min with the right planning(i wouldn't know about that )

even if you view ****, 9/10 times, you are not watching it to learn technique...you leave the computer/tv aroused because you just imagined sliding in or have having someone slide in you, that's NOT your other half. if you even looked at someone and had SEXUAL thoughts, you have cheated. we are human. plenty of times i have seen women and said "good lawd, i wonder what that would be like"...i have cheated in that sense. very minimal and harmless,but if you lust for the flesh, they got ya lol. so in MY OPINION, no disrespect to anyone on here or other halves...we all have a little cheater in us.

 

Hey Brandon, we are cruising on march 5th so mark ur calendar.

And no comment

 

cool!! and now i feel like i have just gave part of the man code out lol...feel free to suspend my man card on a temporary basis if have broken a law.

 

That's completely different than physically cheating. What's the harm in looking lol. It's ok to appreciate a good looking person. I'll even admit if a girl is attractive. It's silly to say that you don't do some eye cheating I guess. I'll admit, I've glanced at a guy and say wow he's hot but that's where girls are different. When I look I don't image ******* them or getting me some. Most guys(not all) image getting it in and wonder what it would be like.

 

Like sometimes me and my bf will be in the mall or something and ill see a pretty girl and ill be like hey be honest do you think she's pretty. And I don't get mad if he agrees.

 

that's why i said SEXUAL thoughts. there are some fatties out there that have very cute faces, but that's it lol. there are also some master splinters out there(rats) that have a bangin body,but have a butter face, as in but her face!! lol

 

I know what butter face is lol. But ya I don't have these sexual thoughts about other guys. Makes me sick thinking about doing something with someone besides my bf. but girls are different.

 

perfect example...guys, don't self incriminate yourselves lol.

for those of you who might not know ice t's girl/wife coco, look her up.

now for those of us that do....given the chance you had 30min to get it on with her in an upscale vegas hotel room, no strings attached. your other half would not find out, unless you opened your mouth and told her,would you climb/jump through that "window of opportunity"??

ladies,do you think your guy could resist her??? married...you might stand more to loose, but face it, all the blood rushes to another head and you can't think straight...soooo.....what do ya do???

 

I've asked him those kinds of questions before. Lol
We both wouldn't do it.

 

What do u mean suspend your man card? what should we do? Eat at a restaurand or bbq?

 

Eat at a restaurant

 

There's other kinds of cheating, not just physical

 

Who said there wasn't?

Emotionally cheating is one. Which I have done unfortunately.