don't know. today, the females are worse than the guys. most women like being single. if they can get some every now and then and don't have to worry about a guy filthy, stinkin, xbox playing, broke, worthless,cheap ass, then they win. remember it takes TWO to do this dance, otherwise it's rape lol...assuming both parties are telling the truth from the jump if he/she are in a relationship lol
at a bar/club scene after drinking and partying all night
guy: hey i'm in a relationship, but you are hot,so do you want to sleep together(keeping it pg)

single girl: sure, but you have to be out by morning and no you can't have my number, i'll call you.(thinking to herself, i haven't gotten laid in awhile, he's decent. i have condoms, pepper spray, tazer, and glock if needed.

or

hot single girl dances with relationship guy who is out with his boys, and MEAN DANCING!! as in borderline lap/table dancing lol.

hsg-i want to take you home with me.

guy-what?? (he's in shock)

hsg-i want you to f#$% you tonight.

guy-there is that damn window of opportunity MM was talking about...(in his head, he's coming up with the perfect lie to explain lost time lol)

 

Good thing I'm not like your scenario lol

 

restaurant

are you going to edit that?? lol

 

And most probably like being single because they have seen how big of dicks guys can be so they don't want to deal with it. Or...they have been hurt before and refuse to get attached to another guy so therefore they rather stay single.

****. Yup haha

 

and there you have it!! most, not all guys do lie about cheating/lusting. we know better lol...the thing is for the female in my opinion, is to trust that he's not,but if he is, the female hope he's being safe and she better not go looking for panadora's box and open it!! then you will be hurt.(going through cell phones, tracking his cell phone, following him, etc)

i hope my wife wouldn't cheat on me, but hey, i'm NOT about to say she would never do it...we all are human and temptation is a mother!! trust me, there is that ONE person somewhere that will make you cheat...the good news, the older we get the less likely it will occur, unless you were having problems and was waiting till all the kids were adults and if you got busted, so what.

 

I'm going to have to say I'd never cheat. So you can't say there's always that one person who will make you. Not everyone is like that.

 

Well 2 ppl have voted for restaurant.... Let's see what the rest say... How does fudrockers sound? I don't want joe's crabshack anymore lol

 

I love that place. Awesome burgers
Hmm fudruckers

 

I agree with you 100%.

I can look at a guy and be like yeah he's hot, but you aren't trying to get in his pants.

And I also agree girls are pretty bad now. I know a few like that, but I still think guys are worse for it.

Guys give into temptation more.

Girls over think everything.

 

Yup. But **** half the girls I graduated with have a baby or are married. It's horrible. And it's starting younger and younger. When I was 12 I was outside playing. I wasn't worried about boys and make up.

 

Alissa...shut it u started young tooo lmao

 

Hey I'm young and have babies so I'm completely guilty of that, but I've probably slept with less people in the past 5 years than most girls do in a year.

 

How many people have you been with turbo? More than2?

 

I started young with one guy because I was in love

 

sorry lissa, that was pure hormones and lust if you were 14 lol. you probably "loved" him, but that was not the reason for you doing that. somebody you or him was just plain horny. love would have waited till you were married...just sayin. maybe that person have not come across in your life yet. you are still "a baby". one of lifes saying is "NEVER say NEVER!!"

 

Love would have waited until marriage?

Not sure what world you live in, but times have changed. Don't get me wrong I know some people who still believe this and do this, but love has nothing do with waiting until marriage.

 

I've been with many girls and have learned what to look for when things start going bad. Needless to say as we grow up and kids become involved we dismiss the key triggers that something is going on because we believe that one must do everything to keep the family together

 

To many people force a relationship because of a child. I was once guilty of this and learned the hard way that it can get worse than you even imagine.

Not everyone is like that though, I think we are all guilty of categorizing people. When really everyone is different, every person is different. Yes people have similarities, but until we ourselves live that specific situation who the hell are we to judge?

 

That's the thing I love about my girlfriend. She points girls out for me and says something like, "look at her ass/****." I'm so blessed and at the end of the day, she knows she is the only one I want to be with. There is nothing wrong with looking, everybody does. Everyone has their own opinion on what is considered cheating. So its really up to the person/couple.

Why are we evening discussing this? Shouldn't we be talking about our econoboxes?

 

Oh I forgot that you know how every person in the world is when it comes to relationships. Waiting till marriage? Not everyone believes in that sorry. And when you say you can't be in love at a young age is stupid.

 

My favourite thing to say "you can look at the menu but you can't order off it, and if your order off of it I will 86 you"

86 in the industry is taking something off the menu

 

Ya that me and my bf is. Me stare at people and point out big *****/butts or muscles on guys.

 

Agree

 

so casual sex is okay...at 14??? that isn't love....sorry...that's the problem things have changed for the worst imo. no morals or values and yes i'm guilty of it, but i know damn sure it wasn't love when i got my first. yes, i was " in love" but it wasn't the i want to be with you the rest of my life love more like,puppy love...love...REAL love is i want to marry you and lets do things the right way.

sorry but explain why waiting to have sex before marriage have nothing to do with love?? the group met my 2 year old daughter. when she gets older, i can't stop her from doing it, but i hope she waits. there are and will be guys that will "talk" you out of it. I WAS ONE OF THEM. we will lie and say i love you to get the goods and have you fooled. trust me, she will be WELL educated on the game when that time comes. IMO ANY GUY that truly loves you will wait. teenagers are hormonal creatures with urges.

 

Well just so you know that guy I decided to have sex with at 14, I'm still with him and I'm 20 now. So you tell me what that is.

Because you don't have to be married to be in love that's why. And casual sex with ONE person is completely fine. When you start doing it with multiple random people you become a *****.