I just had a pretty cool lunch went to Panda Express with a co worker and on the way back to work had some old man come up next to us at the signal light in a Z28 and he looked over at us and said nice car but its only a four cylinder why didnt you get something with a V8,my co worker looked over at him and said its not only a four cylinder its a supercharged four cylinder bytch,this old man thought his Z28 was the shyt until the light turned green and we left the light and he was only able to pull on me by one car..At the next light he said Okay well maybe its just not a four cylinder

 

Okay gotta rant.

So the other day my GF posted on some dudes FB that she wanted to go riding with him,her being on the back of his bike,me being extremely jealous,I told her I didnt like that but am working on my jealousy.well today she said she couldnt come up to the hospital because she was busy with school and house work...cool.she then post a picture of her in her gear and post she's going on a ride with 2 dudes,maybe more I dunno.Im super pissed and my jealousy is maxing our right now.ROBERT DONT YOU SAY ANYTHING TO HER I KNOW YOU TALK TO HER ON THE SIDE!!!I trust her its just the jealousy taking over,that and her lying to me.I really shouldnt have to go through this being in the hospital.I need her support more than anything and she lied to go ride with some guys.Im super super pissed and highly annoyed right now.I have been debating on moving in with her and have been sleeping on it for a couple days,she's expecting an anwer soon and I think I just decided.I cant stand being lied to. ok /rant

 

That sucks Dood, I don't really know the situation but that's not cool, I'd **** if my gf went riding with some Dood end of story.

 

Girls are skanks. Thats all

 

^^^ tru dat

 

+1

 

I am only at 13*

 

LoL i see that T-maxx or S-maxx nitro rc body. I bet that thing is faster 0-50 then all our cars LoL

 

Ya Im pretty pissed right now,even my mom was like,'if I went riding with other guys dave would be pissed" dave being her boyfriend.I just dont know what to do with this chick.she knows that would of pissed me off and yet she did it anyway.Im close to the edge.I cant handle this with being in the hospital.She knows my condition that i battled cancer,had 4 surgerys and still i get lied to? I cant handle this I really cant

 

Im sorry to hear this steve but you shouldn't have to put up with that she should be there with you to support you through these rough times, and going off riding with some other dude knowing it would **** you off then lieing about it would be the last straw for me I don't play those games anymore and not going to put up with it

 

thats what im saying.Im gonna just play it cool and see if she says anything about it.This made my decision on moving in with her though.Not happenin,not even a thought anymore.I just dont understand,she says she loves me so much and im different from every other guy that she's been with.I treay her really good.I dont lie,dont cheat,im very loyal.I helped her around the house every so often did dishes for her.took trash out,little stuff like that.I surprised her with flowers on her bed and brought some to school to her one day.I treat her like a fkng queen,and I get lied to. I remember this is why I was single for 4 years.I might be going that route again

 

I'm going to play devil's advocate and say that a lot of a relationship is letting the other person explore themselves. Take everything I say with a grain of salt, but I think that you should have been okay with her riding on the back of the bike in the first place, just so long as she communicated it with you. Obviously it was something she wanted to do, so you should always be supportive in that. As far as you not being okay with it and her doing it anyway and not being honest, that is bullshit. She has to respect your boundaries just like you would respect hers. There is nothing that will hurt a relationship more than dishonesty. If anything she should have said that it was important to her and you need to deal with it cuz she was going to do it anyways, and that would have been infinitely better and healthier for the two of you than dishonesty.

So, my $.02 is that if she is interested in doing something, try your hardest to not be jealous and be supportive, but on the flip side, honesty is the most important thing in a relationship and lying is unacceptable. Either way, hope things get better homie.

 

She may be loyal and just needed a break from everything(for a bike ride), and was just afraid to throw that out there. Then again I would be pissed if my lady was riding on the back of some bike with some random dude. I would bring it up though, you dont want it to fester and become a bigger problem than it might be.

 

Ugh...thank God my woman is scared to death of bikes. I do agree with what Tyler said, though. Trust is key, and being lied to, even if there's absolutely nothing going on other than a simple bike ride, is shitty.

 

This is very helpful Tyler.Thank you.Im really not so mad of her being on the back of another guys bike(still a little mad TBH)but her not telling me about it pissed me off.We are talking about it as I type this.Thank you guys.You have been much help

 

Totally agree with Tyler

 

Get it!
Hope all works out for the better man!

 

Were good.We're talking everything out.Im still not moving in though lol.I dont think were ready for that yet

 

Jerome would be awesome. I love it up there. The weather is nice and the town is interesting/ghostly after dark

 

Good, I know she makes you happy and most everything can be solved with some communication. I'm definitely glad to hear that you're talking. Hopefully she continues to make you happy for a long time to come

 

Yah don't do that, or at least don't sign the papers by yourself

 

This lol

 

Haha! anyone got a laptop for sale or know of any good deal? my harddrive just went all psn network on me and will not fix itself

 

I got a old slow ass dell laptop i will sell you?

 

ahhh buying a $100 hdd > different laptop brett

those 2.5" drives are not hard to install